You shouldn’t be surprised to hear that asking question to a woman is one of the greatest ways to get to know more about her. I’ve seen lots of lists of dumb “date questions” for you to ask like “If you could have one super power, what would it be?” but these just come off as forced routines that don’t really bring the two of you closer together. These will only hurt your chances with the woman.
You shouldn’t devote your energy to these stupid questions. Try just having a authentic conversation with the woman instead. Using these idiotic questions is just something that men use to help them feel better when they are anxious or nervous about talking to the woman. Ultimately, these corny routines will only keep you from having a good connection with a girl. Try to stop approaching the situation by thinking so much and try to live more in the moment when you’re with her. Notice how she reacts and behaves toward things that happen and actually start to take an interest in her experience and feels and you’ll never run out of things to talk about.
Lot of men fall into the trap of asking too many “yes/no” type questions.If you do this, stop it. This is creepy and it comes across as if you are interrogating her.
Do you live nearby? – Yep.
Do you work in town? – Yes.
Do you like animals? – No.
Are you getting annoyed with all these questions? – Yep.
Open-ended questions are a lot better because they make the girl contribute something personally to the conversation.
What’s your favorite area of town? – I like the ABC District. In fact I live there.
Really? What’s the best thing about that neighborhood? – These’s just so much history in that place! It never gets boring. blah blah blah.
You’re probably getting it.
Ask the girl about her life and other experiences. Try to get a better understanding of what it’s like to be her. Start to drill down deeper into her emotions by asking the woman questions like “What did that make you feel?” and “What was it like when XXX happened?” Watch how she acts when she describe things and drill down on those too. Ask her things like “You seemed a little worried when you told me about your job.Tell me more about that.” This often opens things that the girl didn’t even know about herself.
Once you do this a few times, you will start to feel a very extremely strong connection that will make it seem like the two of you are in a bubble, alone from the rest of the world. The two of you could be in the loudest dance club in town, but you will feel like you’re completely alone with the girl.
Don’t you think that this is a huge improvement from “What’s your favorite type of jelly bean?”
So, just ditch the annoying date questions and just have a real legitimate conversation. Just show up to the interaction and let things unfold naturally. Ask questions to the girl and start to really get an understanding about her life. So don’t let anything hold you back. Ask her anything you want, but you must actually care about the answer.
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