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509ptownwash
on 11th Mar, 10 04:03pm
fuck bitches get money
MrNicMachiavelli
on 11th Mar, 10 04:03pm
Real let me guess, you get told your a “nice friend” by the girls a lot..
BackRowKiss
on 11th Mar, 10 04:03pm
James Bond… HaHaHa
Its in the fucking SCRIPT you DONK!!! Of course he get the freeking girl!!!
TheRealDirtyScary
on 11th Mar, 10 05:03pm
good point. No one can be alike in all ways, we are as individual as any fingerprint and that’s the essence of life.These woman expect perfection and frankly no one deserves perfection. You could be broke and have zero personality, but if you look like an underwear model, your a chick magnet no matter what. But then woman say looks aren’t everything, woman seem to change their answer to fit every situation that comes at them. Consistency is doesn’t seem to be their forte.
JoshRom
on 11th Mar, 10 05:03pm
Well, it’s possible that we are the problem. But from my limited experience, it seems that so many females fall prey to the “love” they see on TV and in movies. They think they’ll find someone and “click” and it’ll be that way forever. In reality, a relationship requires a lot of effort. What pisses me off the most is that people think you have to be with someone that has the same interests, dislikes, etc., just to get along. If you’re looking for yourself, just masturbate.
TheRealDirtyScary
on 11th Mar, 10 05:03pm
Superman , James Bond? LMAO ! What a pathetic cunt
TheRealDirtyScary
on 11th Mar, 10 05:03pm
That’s no lie. It works. It’s sad that very attractive woman think all they have to be is attractive and not try on all other characteristics. It’s amusing how she says don’t be desperate. But then woman complain men don’t approach the, but if they do, their desperate. I don’t know what to think of woman anymore. It shouldn’t be so complicated. Woman read romance novels because that’s what they want out of life. What a sad gender.
TheRealDirtyScary
on 11th Mar, 10 05:03pm
The list goes on and on. You could be 9 out of ten things on a woman’s “Criteria list” but if you aren’t one, next. The other thing I should poin out is, don’t date woman on dating sites, because their thinking is that men and relationships are quickly disposable, because all they have to do is click, next. Then before they know it, they’re 40, complaining that being single is depressing, stupid bitches lol
JoshRom
on 11th Mar, 10 06:03pm
If you really want a girlfriend, just find someone of lower attractiveness. It’s a sure bet.
controversyking
on 11th Mar, 10 06:03pm
Here you say “be your own man” but then you give this whol other criteria of things to do and not do. Which is it?
controversyking
on 11th Mar, 10 07:03pm
I know. That’s the problem with women. They live in a fantasy world.
jonjonwhii
on 11th Mar, 10 07:03pm
@IShowYouLawAndOrder GENIOUS!
good job man.
TheRealDirtyScary
on 11th Mar, 10 08:03pm
lol what a dumb bitch, were supposed to duplicate what the stars are doing? Well, that sets the bar too high, after all, they are actors. Worst advice possible.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 08:03pm
8. Approach
The 2nd function is:
You value the girl by valuing her feelings. If you care what she feels, you care about her.
3rd function:
It’s an open-ended question: To answer it, she has to elaborate inside her mind, and because it’s and emotion-related question it’s her current set of feelings she has to access.
That makes her much more vulnerable to emotional follow-up questions.
And slowly but gradually a warm gut feeling is starting to grow inside her, the pre-stage of liking you.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 09:03pm
8. Approach
There is one killer phrase that works with women all the time, but it’s not what you expected it to be:
It’s: “How do you feel ?”
Huh ?
That phrase has more than one function:
1. It opens up the emotional side in the girl.
Women don’t want to talk about rational things with their future mate. Dead simple.
They don’t love your car, don’t love your wallet (only if you’re a rich, but goofy or cold guy), don’t love your company.
They want to love the human being that you are.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 09:03pm
7. Mood
And now I tell you a secret: Women will sense the dreamy look in your eyes, the smile on your face, your absence of tensity in your facial muscles, wide pupils etc. IMMEDIATELY !
That’s the state that is called: CONFIDENT.
Men who are in love with a woman become attractive to other women. It’s scientifically proven.
So the hooker in a sense will show you the goal, that you want to reach with that other woman you approach in the street beforehand.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 10:03pm
6. Mood
Singing has the other advantage of making your voice sound stronger and more self-confident.
Why visiting a hooker ?
Sounds strange. It’s not.
I know what men are like. A hooker will accept you, no matter how awkward you are.
Select one that offers girlfriend sex, which means with kissing and hugging.
After you finished, I’ll tell you how you’ll feel:
Warm gut feeling, confident, buttersoft knees, hovering above the ground, relaxed.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 10:03pm
5. Mood
So in order to not be an awkward, goofy robot you somehow have learn put yourself into an emotional state. How to do that ?
There are two ways:
1. Singing emotional love songs
This sounds stupid and gay at first, but it’s not.
Singing gives you two advantages:
It makes you express emotions and that is exactly what you want to do later on towards a girl.You want to be expressive and to be secure in expression emotions.
2. Visit a hooker before you approach women on the street.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 10:03pm
4. Mood
Women sense emotion in facial expressions much faster and much more fine tuned than men (scientifically proven), and they sense one emotion fastest, which is fear.
So in order to be CONFIDENT (yuck, puhlease!) you have to be in the right mood, which means your right hemisphere has to reach working temperature if you will.
You can’t create a mood in others that you don’t feel yourself first.
Men almost always use only their left hemisphere, where reasoning and logic is placed.
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 11:03pm
3. Health
Do sports (cycling for endurance and strong legs), body-building (lightly, you don’t want to look like Arnold, this is too much and not what women want), especially breast muscles (m. pectoralis) and broad shoulders (m. deltadoides) (where women can lean on, expresses dominance), arms (m. biceps, m. triceps), no steroids (impotence, liver damage)
Healthy food, e.g. noodles (carbohydrates, proteines), no fast food, vegetables, water (> 0.6 gal./day), magnesium tablets (heart), fish
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 11:03pm
2. Clothes
Jacket: black, leather, clean cut, no frills
Shirt: white, body-tight T-shirt (Summer),
long-sleeved white shirt with thin black stripes and broad stiff collar, possibly jersey over it (Winter), uppermost 2 buttons worn open
Trousers: Jeans (casual), tuxedo (special occasions), brown or black leather belt
Shoes: brown or black, polished, clean, leather,expensive
All colours black, white or brown, except Jeans of course, all clothes fitting well, clean.
Price altogether: >$300
IShowYouLawAndOrder
on 11th Mar, 10 11:03pm
Here’s my advice being the extract of 15 years of girl hunting:
1. Body
Hair: short cut, wet look styling
Beard: cleanly shaven, moisturizing lotion, no alcohol, baby-like soft skin, no pimples
Deodorant: Spicy black (opium-like kind of smell)
Generally: No bad breath (tongue cleaning!), healthy white teeth (brush!, no smoking),
Shower daily. Use deodorant daily.
Use cream for lips and shaven beard but not on nose (no highlights) to make them look soft and kissable.
Attila709
on 12th Mar, 10 12:03am
Sounds like good advice. Now where do I get a license to kill?
CocodriloNYC
on 12th Mar, 10 12:03am
man your introdution is terrible -2/10
OmfgUrANub
on 12th Mar, 10 12:03am
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